About 800 pupils were inside the school in the holy city of Mecca when the tragedy occurred.
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Communicating patterns, verbal, and non-verbal practices.
Verbal
The love of talk stems from the rich nomadic oral tradition of
greeting travelers and exchanging information.
Low literacy rates increase the importance of verbal
communication.
Arabs love poetry and creative speech. They are fond of
bestowing flowery blessings and colorful swearing.
When speaking with Arabs keep in mind that they believe that
words have power. Arabs shun speaking about unpleasantries
out of fear that negative speech compels negative results.
Also, they will use euphemisms when discussing the plight of
others. For instance, say a mutual acquaintance is ill and near
death. Should you inquire about recent news he will likely
respond, “he is well, but a little tired.” In an operational
situation check the facts after being briefed by an Arab soldier
because he may be sugar coating a bitter pill.
Written
Muslims, particularly Arab Muslims, consider the Arabic
Language holy as the Qur’an is written in Arabic. The written
word has special meaning to them and is respected by the
literate and the illiterate alike.
Arabs consider advanced education a remarkable achievement
and greatly respect scholars and learned men and women.
Avoid using newspapers in “unclean” ways as many Arabic
newspapers usually have some reference to Allah and some
Arabs could be insulted in how the printed name of Allah is
treated.
Gestures and what they mean...
Warning! Gestures indicating obscenities or insults
should not be used by non-Arabs. Arab gestures of this
type have varying degrees of intensity. Depending upon
the circumstances and country, incorrect usage could lead
to serious offenses and cause diplomatic incidents.
- Shake Hands with right hand only and at the beginning and end of any visit. Shake hands longer but less firmly than in the West. Left hand grasps elbow.
- Close friends or colleagues hug and kiss both cheeks upon greeting. During the Hajj (pilgrimage), people may kiss only on the shoulders as a gesture of friendship and greeting.
- Touching noses together three times when greeting is a Bedouin gesture of friendship and respect.
- Placing a hand on your heart along with a slight bow is a sign of respect. This is usually done during greeting. US soldiers should limit physical contact to a handshake.
- “It’s my Obligation” - The gesture of placing the right hand or its forefinger on the tip of the nose, on the right lower eyelid, on top of the head, on the mustache or beard has the meaning of "it’s in front of me, I see it or it’s on my head to accomplish."
- ”Come Here” -Right hand out, palm down, with fingers brought toward oneself repeatedly in a clawing motion, is the sign for calling someone to come.
- ”I’m thinking” - Grasping the chin with the thumb side of the right fist is a sign of wisdom or maturity.
- “Slow down” - By holding the fingers in a pear shaped configuration with the tips pointing up at about waist level and moving the hand slightly up and down signals "wait a little bit" or "be careful. " This gesture can be observed extensively when driving in the crowded streets of the Arab cities. In such a locale, it may be accompanied by curses from an anxious taxi driver or a pedestrian trying to cross the street.
- ”Thank You” - Placing the palm of the right hand on the chest, bowing the head a little and closing one’s eyes connotes "Thank
- "You" (in the name of Allah).
- “No” – A quick snap of the head upwards with an accompanying click of the tongue connotes: "No", "Unlikely", or "What you say is false."
- “I wish evil upon you” - Biting the right forefinger, which has been placed sideways in the mouth, may be a threat or an expression of regret. In Western culture the "A-OK" sign is a positive gesture. However in the Arab world, if the gesture is shaken at another person it symbolizes the sign of the evil eye. An Arab may use the sign in conjunction with verbal curses.
- ”I wish you harm” -Hitting the right fist into the open palm of the left hand indicates obscenity or contempt.
- ”You’re lying” - Placing a half closed hand in front of the stomach, and then turning it slightly connotes that the person to whom the gesture is made is a liar.
- ”I insult you” - Placing the tips of the left fingers and thumb together so that the hand faces right, then placing the tip of the right forefinger directly on the left fingertips indicates an obscenity or insult directed at one’s birth or parentage.
- ”You are unimportant” - Showing soles while sitting is considered rude. and symbolic of “you being beneath my feet”. Sit instead with soles toward or on ground to be polite. Also maintain eye contact; lack of eye contact strongly conveys “you are unimportant” as well.